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Thursday, March 27 2014
I've been making a personal observation of people around me.  When they complain about not being able to "get ahead" or wonder why the seas aren't parting for them, it's because they're getting in their own way.
It's almost impossible to see anything about your own life when you're swimming in the muddy waters, trying to keep your head just far enough above to not drown.  However, when it comes to other people's lives, this is when it becomes obvious what they're doing "wrong" when it comes to not succeeding in ways that they talk about wanting to succeed.
There are a few different reasons why you're not where you want to be in life:
1)  You're not specific enough about where you want to be the hell do you expect to get there if you don't know where "there" really is?
2)  You're "too busy" to focus on the things that will get you to where you want to be in life.  Life keeps getting in the way and "one day" when you have time, you'll get around to doing the things you know you have to do to reach those dream goals.
3)  You're waiting around for the magic genie, Santa Claus, or some other mythical creature to magically make the life you want appear without any work on your part.
Or...maybe you don't know what the heck you want but you know what type of life you have now simply isn't working out or making you happy at all.
I have thousands of students.  Many go on to be extremely successful in both real estate investing as well as using my Aggressive Income Strategies.
Then there are others who completely fail.
And it's not for the lack of trying either.
One day it dawned on me why these people fail.  I realized why some people hit their success out of the ballpark right away while others fail with one project after another until they finally give up.
A lot of people always ask me the same question which goes something like this:  "Monica, where should I start out first?"
My answer used to be this:  "Start fixing/rebuilding personal credit and start building business credit.  Then decide if you want to start an Aggressive Income Business to get revenue for down payments on cash flow real estate.  Then decide which types of properties you'll be investing in and where in the country you'll be investing."
Now the answer is different.  It goes like this:  "You have to develop a 'warrior-like' focus knowing exactly what you want and how you'll get there before you decide to move forward with anything otherwise anything you do to work toward 'success' will fail."
It may seem obvious but it's not.  You have to know precisely where you want to be and within what timeline you'll get there before you'll be ready to start moving forward in any direction.
What if you don't know exactly what you want?  Time to figure that out.  Now!
What if you are someone who has been aiming toward certain goals and have been trying to get there but you've been failing?  Something is "off kilter" that has to be shifted.
What if you "sort of" know what you want but you've found yourself sitting around not committing or doing anything about your goals?  Maybe it's time to sh** or get off the pot!
The reason we've entered into this lifetime is to experience as much in life as we can.  And I don't know how to do that without being able to do the things I want to do.  What helps me do the things I want to do is making a lot of money.  Without money, I can't experience what I want to experience.  Maybe you've noticed that you need to have money to experience those things in life you want to experience, too.
If you have been unfocused or trying different businesses (or investing) that hasn't worked, it's because you need to be set in the right focused direction.  This is the first step toward reaching any and every goal you could possibly imagine.
I have a very special Change Your Life Mentorship Group.  It's a 6-week 100% online group that will give you that "mind shift" you've probably been waiting decades for.  This is my newest and most exciting group because it will set you straight and on your way to ultimate success and well-being within only a month and a half.
Here's the link to listen to my totally awesome audio seminar that talks all about the group:
See you at the top!
Your mentor,
Monica Main
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